The Day My Kids Tried to Capture the Neighbors

My kids come up with some pretty crazy ideas. They are imaginative and funny, with a good dose of mischief.
Yesterday was a beautiful day here in Northern Arizona. While my east coast friends and family have piles of snow to play in, we have crisp air, and sunshine that feels like spring. 
I sat in the back yard working on a paper for a class while my girls played, They both mentioned riding bikes, so I suggested that we ride bikes to our neighborhood park, where they could continue playing together, and I could concentrate on my work. 
Once we arrived, B decided that she wanted to climb a tree, study nature and write in her journal. C was lonely and needed someone to play with. Her attempts to cajole B out of the tree were met with disdain, so she turned to me for entertainment. 
I played for a bit, but I really needed to get going on my paper. I asked B to please find it in her heart to come down from the tree and play with her sister. 
They raced around and had a snack, and interrupted my train of thought about every 45 seconds. This was not working.
“Guys. PLEASE figure out something to play. Make up a game. Have a contest. Please play without me for fifteen minutes.”
Off they went, and I was able to make some good headway on my assignment. 
About ten minutes later, a school bus dropped some high school students off at the sidewalk. I looked around to see what the girls were doing. I saw C, waving at the bus driver and students, but I couldn’t see B from my place in the grass. I stood up, and spotted B under her bike. It looked as though she had taken a spill. I quickened my pace.
“B, are you alright? What happened?”
“Mom, go away! You’ll ruin our plan!”
“Plan?”
“Yes. We are trying to get someone to come help us so we can capture them!”
Upon further investigation, I discovered that the point of the pretend game was to make drivers think that B was in peril (she was also mouthing “help” so drivers could see her, but I wouldn’t hear her), and then when someone stopped, B & C would capture the unsuspecting helper and tie them to a tree!
I was torn between laughing hysterically and tying them to a tree. 😉
I decided that it was time to go home.
I am pretty sure that this will not be their craziest scheme, considering they are only 4 and 6. 
What is the wildest plot your kids have come up with? Share it with me in the comments – I’d love to know I’m in good company!
 
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{GHF Blog Hop} Gifted in Reel Life: Those Quirky Red Boots

One of my favorite movies depicting a gifted person is “All About Steve” with Sandra Bullock. (Warning: the movie/trailer is PG-13. Also, this may post may contain spoilers. And, to be fair, the trailer is a terrible representation of the movie. But I digress.)

In the movie, Bullock plays Mary Horowitz, a crossword puzzle constructor (a cruciverbalist – don’t you love that word?) with an awful lot of quirks.

The synopsis from IMDB describes the story as such: 

Crossword puzzle constructor Mary Horowitz (Sandra Bullock) is smart, pretty – and a natural disaster that shakes news cameraman Steve (Bradley Cooper) to the core. Set up on a blind date with Steve, Mary thinks the chemistry is undeniable and just knows she’s found her soulmate. She decides to do anything and go anywhere to be with him. Mary’s escalating infatuation is encouraged by the self-serving actions of news reporter Hartman Hughes (Thomas Haden Church) who enjoys torturing his insolent cameraman at every opportunity. As the news team crisscrosses the country covering breaking news stories, Steve becomes increasingly unhinged as Mary trails them. But when the overzealous Mary becomes embroiled in the news story of the year, Steve and Hartman begin to see her differently. Mary has fallen down a mineshaft and steve feels guilty for knowing its his fault she is down there. Mary manages to get out of the mineshaft and races into the arms of her new odd-ball friends.

When I first heard about the movie, my thoughts were, “Bradley Cooper and Sandra Bullock? Fun romantic comedy? Sure!”

Instead, I found a fairly accurate depiction of a highly gifted woman, living unapologetically in a world that just didn’t get her.

The movie critics and the majority of online reviewers gave this movie an average of 1.5 stars, and had nothing nice to say about the plot or the characters. They saw Mary as a ditsy, emotionally clueless woman looking for love. One reviewer called her referred to her as “intended as the kind of crazy tornado who makes all the normal people reconsider their lives, but just unbelievably irritating in practice”.  The first part of the movie depicts her as a sex-starved woman, desperate for human contact.

Pretty harsh. Are you wondering what I found positive about this movie?

As the movie progressed, I saw in Mary’s character a brilliant, kind, enthusiastic, endlessly optimistic person who is able to see far beyond the horizon that most people look at. I loved Mary’s dialogue in the movie…a constant stream of information and language, banter that few around her appreciate.

Mary tells jokes that only she laughs at. She loves words with a passion, and it pains her when they are used incorrectly, or are misunderstood. She is a walking thesaurus and encyclopedia on just about every subject. She is awkward.  She jumps into the deep end of a relationship with abandon, and doesn’t notice when others don’t follow.

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…sound familiar yet? Or am I the only one who has “The Secret Life of Pronouns” on my bookshelf?

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Mary has a pair of favorite red boots that she wears every day, every where. They don’t make sense to other people. It makes others uncomfortable, somehow, to see Mary wear these ridiculous boots all the time. Why can’t she just wear something normal?

Mary is intense, and this really bothers people, fictional and non-fictional.

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Are you, or your children attached to certain pieces of clothing, a blanket or other item that just feels right? As Mary says when asked why she wears the boots, “Because it makes my toes feel like ten friends on a camping trip, that’s why.”  Don’t let anyone tell you that’s not okay! 

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The depiction of Mary throughout the movie  can be painful to watch.

She is continually mocked, misunderstood, and portrayed to be a crazy stalker who doesn’t understand social nuances. Her good will is taken advantage of for the benefit of others.

There is a scene in which she talks to a group of children about her job. She describes the joy of writing crossword puzzles, but the children can’t get past the fact that she lives with her parents, is single, and doesn’t appear to be very successful. She is ridiculed by a roomful of 10 year olds.

Her relationship skills leave something to be desired. She is placated by her date, Steve, who creates an emergency work situation to get out of his date with her. “Yeah, I wish you could be there with me…” She takes his words seriously, literally and directly to heart. She plans the future with these words.

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One time at the doctor’s office, B asked many questions about a surgery the doctor told her he was performing the following day. She asked him if she could come watch the next one. “Oh sure,” he replied. “You can come watch me any time.”  As she planned the rest of her week around the surgery she was going to get to assist with, I told him that she was going to expect to join him in the OR if he said things like that. She was crushed when he explained that she couldn’t really watch him, and he was just joking. “I’ve never met a kid like her before…” he mused as we left. 


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Mary travels via bus across the country after Steve. While on the bus, she dispenses data and fun details about everything she sees and hears. Her knowledge is extensive, and she loves to share. She doesn’t notice the reaction of the people around her. They are annoyed, frustrated, and just want her to be quiet. The bus driver tricks her into getting off of the bus and strands her at a gas station in the desert.

For talking too much.  For being different.

I’m not good at…silence. ‘Mary doesn’t do quiet’, that’s how my grandmother always said it. ‘What’s that hush?’ she’d holler at a party. ‘It’s Mary about to talk’, then she’d laugh and laugh and laugh. Everybody would…but I knew something they didn’t – that is you keep talking, if you keep on talking, you don’t hear people saying they don’t like you. And if you’re talking, you just might not hear it when some kid…calls you a freak.”

Words can be a great comfort in a world that doesn’t understand you.

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In our household, we have a high volume of long conversations that begin with, “Mom, want to know something?”  There is always a new thought, an idea to consider, or knowledge to share. It’s painful to consider how this would be perceived and reacted to in many venues.

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Along the way, Mary gets involved in various social actions, and demonstrates the depth of her empathy, and ability to see the good in others. She makes friends with people who are also a little off the beaten track, and love her for who she is, red boots and all. As Steve says, “She sees things other people don’t…she doesn’t pretend to be anything she’s not.”

She finds her tribe.

image: Graham Keen

I can’t help myself. I love this movie, I love her character. I relate.

Have you seen this movie? Did you hate it? Love it? What movie characters do you see glimpses of yourself in?

This blog post is part of the Gifted Homeschoolers’ Forum January Blog Hop – Gifted in Reel Life. Please join me in reading the insightful and humorous blogs about how gifted children and adults are portrayed in books and media here, or click the image below!